Sheri Rowland

#ConfidenceInsideandout

Have you lost confidence in yourself and afraid to go out and date… again?  

Yes! Here I am in midlife and dating and need to get my confidence going again!

YIKES!

It can be really scary, stressful and not what it is all cracked up to be….UNLESS you have done some soul searching and done some work on yourself!  Confidence is hard to get back after you have lost it.

I am not saying you are the problem but you are the common denominator here! AND you are the only one that you can fix!

My friends ask me: “Why don’t you just go out more?”

“Have you checked out online dating sites?”

They all know someone that met the love of their life on a dating site and lived happily ever after.

I can be stubborn and stuck in my ways! 

Strangely, I can be a very social person but I also enjoy my time alone.

Why was I cutting myself off from the world? If I don’t put myself out into the world then nothing bad can happen to me. I can play safe! But in playing safe… I don’t get a date!

I didn’t want to get my heart broken …again and certainly did not want any more disappointments.

Yes, if you don’t do anything Sheri, nothing bad happens. However, nothing GOOD happens, either. Actually, nothing happens but sitting on the couch binging on Netflix and eating popcorn and chocolate! 

I don’t like the bar scene!  I always feel like it is just a “pick up” scene.  Plus, I don’t drink and there is nothing worse than a man that has had a few too many drinks drooling on you!

I have done the online dating thing. Now, that was where the stress began.

Creating my profile that had some of my sass and wit and photos that were current and not too many either! I didn’t want to be “too much”  but then I did not want to not be me either!

And the body shape question! Excuse me? Ok… curvy! (that’s not overweight right?) 

The choices of men on dating sites is another issue. Have you ever seen some of the pics and descriptions! Geez! I really don’t want to see your dirty bathroom, your 10 dogs, and cats, (I could smell their house from here) AND a lot of TMI! And I am not into “hook-ups” either where my friends set me up with someone they think will be “just perfect for you!

Never has worked for me! 

I now have some prerequisite questions I ask and a list of qualities that I would like in a man! Having this list saves me a lot of time and frustration when I do date a man. I always encourage my clients to do the same so that they feel confident in who they are BEFORE dating.

If you find yourself in the dating scene, you should too. I share these in my coaching!!!!   

As women, we need support to get that confidence back to put yourself out into the dating world again. It’s scary out there!  (and I am not even talking about the spammers out there that have ripped women off)

If you find yourself fearing dating again at this time of your life, know that you are not alone!

Let’s do this together and you will be supported all the way! 

It doesn’t have to be difficult! 

Aren’t you yearning to be in a relationship again?  Find your true love?  

I promise you, life can change in the blink of an eye with the right coaching and the right support.

Let’s get you feeling confident, self-assured and glowing again!

Private message me if you want the scoop and let’s talk!

Sheri

  PS… I also use a various sort of Essential Oil blends that help you feel sassy and sexy again.  I will link them here.
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